Hello, I’m Sydna Massé, author of the book, Her Choice to Heal: Finding Spiritual and Emotional Peace After Abortion and the Founder and CEO of Ramah International, an outreach organization designed to offer the hope of healing to abortion’s wounded around the world.

Denial, anger, depression, acceptance – these are all stages in the grieving process. No two people grieve in the same way or in the same order. Just remember that the goal of mourning is not to “get over” it but to get through it – to do the work of grieving.

It’s a powerful step to name your aborted child(ren) and to grieve their loss and have a memorial service to remember them. This step can lead to deeper healing and letting go of this pain by giving it over to God.

This process is outlined in Isaiah 43:18-19 – Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland. 

The lessons in this module, along with Chapter 7 in my book, Her Choice to Heal, will provide more details about heaven and what your eventual meeting with your child could be like.

Also outlined are potential triggers of post-abortion pain and ways to tame these triggers to help you process future emotions relating to your lost child(ren).

God promised us in Psalms 126: 5-6 that – Those who sow with tears will reap with songs of joy. Those who go out weeping, carrying seed to sow, will return with songs of joy, carrying sheaves with them.